Ascending the Cave

The only thing I can think of being in a cave-like situation is when I was in a relationship with this guy and we dated for a while. He would start to treat me bad and I knew I had to get out of the relationship. So, I ascended and I felt better about myself to be out. Eventually over time, I wanted to be with him again. When we started talking again, everyone was telling me it was a mistake. His response was that he wanted to be with me and he was going to change. However, 3 weeks later he moves away to Indiana where he is originally from and ended up being the same guy. He was happy with me wanted to be with him again because he was always happy to be with me and liked the feeling of me back in his life. There is another situation of being in a cave but it's with my brother. He is younger than me and he hated living in my parents house because he had to follow certain rules while being under their roof. He decided to move out into an apartment with a couple of his friends with limited money. Eventually one of his roommates bailed and now he is struggling to pay rent and wants to move back into my parents house. My parent's said no because they were already used to him being out and he moved out even when they kept telling him he shouldn't do it because he doesn't have the money or the responsibilities. They feel that now he is out, he should continue to learn to be on his own and learn from his mistakes.

I think that researching my place would be considered ascending because you're learning about something that you sort of take for granted. There's so much history to your place that you never really realized. You are stepping out of your cave to learn about something new in a place that you have lived in most of your life. It's neat and exciting so it makes you want to learn about all the other places that are around your area.